8 tips on how to get your crush to ask you out.



1. Be yourself

Stop acting like the person you think they would like. Just be yourself. Being deceiving will  put you in a bad spot in the future when you finally start to show your true colors. True colors that they might not even like. It’s one thing to modify your actions a little, but to completely be fake…don’t do it. That includes don’t pretend to like something just because he likes it.

2.smile

 A smile can go a long way. Whenever you’re around your crush don’t be afraid to smile. You’ll look even more beautiful (guys and girls) and more inviting. They’ll be more likely to talk to you if you smile at them instead of staring at them with a stony look on your face.

3. Don’t beat around the bush

Don’t wonder why they show no interest if you don’t make it clear that you’re feeling them. Nobody is a mind reader. Your thoughts don’t magically project into their head telling them that ” Hey, that person likes me. I should make a move.” Flirt a little. Make a little PG body contact.

4. Take the lead

Stop waiting for the other person to make the first move. Especially if you are a girl. This isn’t the 19th  century anymore. If you really like a person then make the first move. From starting a conversation to asking them to hang out. As nike says ’ Just do it’. Confidence speaks volumes and people are attracted to that.

 5. minimize the crowd

Chances are they’re less likely to make moves (of any kind) when you’re with a big crowd of friends. See if you can get your crush alone, if only for a few minutes, to talk. Chances are they’ll be more comfortable without the prying eyes of your friends.

6. Show an interest in what they like

If you’re talking with them make sure you try to talk about something they really love. Even if you don’t know what the hell it is or understand it make the effort to talk about it and understand. It really shows that you’re into them and willing to try.

7.  Avoid getting trapped

We’ve all done it. Tried being the friend first and then end up stuck in the friend zone with the person not wanting to try anything for risk of ruining the friendship. We all hate it so try to avoid it. Agreed that the greatest relationships form from friendships but don’t make it so they only see you as one of the ” Guys/Girls”. Otherwise it won’t click that you’re dating material. Find a happy balance. Friendship and a little flirty.

8. LEAVE them out

I no longer believe in letting your friends know. Letting your friends know everything is not a good idea. Especially if you have friends that like to let things slip. Not only that but the more people you let know about your crush the more you look like an idiot when things end up bad. Letting a couple ( a couple does mean 2!) know and letting them make subtle hints and suggestions is okay though.


p.s: I only shares because I care. well good luck :) 

8 tips on how to get your crush to ask you out.



1. Be yourself

Stop acting like the person you think they would like. Just be yourself. Being deceiving will  put you in a bad spot in the future when you finally start to show your true colors. True colors that they might not even like. It’s one thing to modify your actions a little, but to completely be fake…don’t do it. That includes don’t pretend to like something just because he likes it.

2.smile

 A smile can go a long way. Whenever you’re around your crush don’t be afraid to smile. You’ll look even more beautiful (guys and girls) and more inviting. They’ll be more likely to talk to you if you smile at them instead of staring at them with a stony look on your face.

3. Don’t beat around the bush

Don’t wonder why they show no interest if you don’t make it clear that you’re feeling them. Nobody is a mind reader. Your thoughts don’t magically project into their head telling them that ” Hey, that person likes me. I should make a move.” Flirt a little. Make a little PG body contact.

4. Take the lead

Stop waiting for the other person to make the first move. Especially if you are a girl. This isn’t the 19th  century anymore. If you really like a person then make the first move. From starting a conversation to asking them to hang out. As nike says ’ Just do it’. Confidence speaks volumes and people are attracted to that.

 5. minimize the crowd

Chances are they’re less likely to make moves (of any kind) when you’re with a big crowd of friends. See if you can get your crush alone, if only for a few minutes, to talk. Chances are they’ll be more comfortable without the prying eyes of your friends.

6. Show an interest in what they like

If you’re talking with them make sure you try to talk about something they really love. Even if you don’t know what the hell it is or understand it make the effort to talk about it and understand. It really shows that you’re into them and willing to try.

7.  Avoid getting trapped

We’ve all done it. Tried being the friend first and then end up stuck in the friend zone with the person not wanting to try anything for risk of ruining the friendship. We all hate it so try to avoid it. Agreed that the greatest relationships form from friendships but don’t make it so they only see you as one of the ” Guys/Girls”. Otherwise it won’t click that you’re dating material. Find a happy balance. Friendship and a little flirty.

8. LEAVE them out

I no longer believe in letting your friends know. Letting your friends know everything is not a good idea. Especially if you have friends that like to let things slip. Not only that but the more people you let know about your crush the more you look like an idiot when things end up bad. Letting a couple ( a couple does mean 2!) know and letting them make subtle hints and suggestions is okay though.


p.s: I only shares because I care. well good luck :)